What does it take to be successful? I know that many volumes have been written on this topic but here I wish to plumb the depths a bit and look at an issue that likely has received little attention.

Do you accept that in order for someone to be successful they must be fully in charge and aware of the decisions that they choose to make?

Well that sounds like a "no brainer" correct?

Would it surprise you if I said that practically no one on this planet falls into that category?

Yes, I know you're either confused by or skeptical about what was just said so let me expand on it.

What does it mean to be "fully in charge and fully aware" of one's decisions?

Well it means that one makes all their decisions consciously.

If you look at your behaviors, if you are honest with yourself, you will see that there many behaviors and or reactions that you exhibit that are not desirable to you, correct?

Behaviors such as: becoming impatient, angry, frustrated, short with others, overly controlling, worried, avoidant, overly aggressive, tense, neglecting your health, and so on.

Well if they are not desirable to you then why are you manifesting them? Well in truth its because you're not consciously aware of what is driving them, nor do you feel that you have control of them.

So how successful does that make you feel? Well it probably makes you feel inadequate doesn't it?

Doesn't your ultimate success, whatever your definition, depend on you feeling good, confident, good about yourself, happy, in control of yourself, calm, relaxed, healthy, at peace and so on?

So why do you choose to limit yourself by allowing yourself to go on functioning in an unconscious manner? Is this really going to lead to your success?

If I've gotten your attention then we'll just say that you've awakened for a moment. Now that you are awake you may wish to visit the web link below where you can get the support you want to help you stay that way.